For me, first dates don’t normally start out with a trip to the adult store, but there was a chemistry between him and I that was undeniable and not normal for me to find either, and hey, what was normal, anyways? Certainly not a word that applied to me. I had met him online, but surprisingly, not on a dating site. We had actually begun chatting on a local forum about some current politics happening in our city, and that let to a private chat. There was something about our co