Updated: Oct 20, 2018
Good morning friends! Or, good afternoon, good evening, or goodnight, depending on whenever you stumble across this blog post. And yes, I did just say that. My geek flag is flying high and proud today guys, what can I say.
I actually wanted to write this post out for ya'll over a week ago, but like always, life got a little bit crazy for me. There are a lot of big events happening right now that I am going to touch on later in an email post, plus trudging through the ends of a breakup, and that started to put a bit of a strain on my already very busy life. BUT, if you know me even a wee tiny bit, you know that all I needed was a few days to get my head together and make a new plan to go forward with, and here I am!
And I have to try not to get too carried away here today, because I haven't wrote to you guys in a while, and I have a lot to fill you in on! Ya'll know I love to talk. But I need to stay focused.. because today's blog is all about WHY EROTICA! And a few other fun facts that I've been asked about along the way.
I think, "Why erotica?" Is the second most asked question I receive these days, right after "How do you write a book?" (Seriously guys, you just write it. Pen to paper. And I'm working on a book all about that right now, lol). And because the answer to erotica is near and dear to my heart, I thought it deserved it's own blog post and chat on FACEBOOK, and not just a quick answer.
SEX. IS. IMPORTANT. SEXUAL CHEMISTRY IS IMPORTANT. SEXUAL EXPLORATION IS IMPORTANT. ROMANCE IS IMPORTANT. SELF LOVE IS IMPORTANT.
It is healthy in your own life, in your relationship with yourself, with others, and how you feel every single day. From feeling confident enough in your own body, to testing the limits of your sexual needs, to finding out what makes others tick, to a healthy relationship with your partner, to experiencing a sexual intimacy with yourself and with others that has NOTHING to do with orgasms and taking your clothes off.
My experience selling sex toys taught me far more about other people, and myself, than it ever did about the actual toys themselves. People don't know their own bodies. They don't know how to be romantic with others. They don't know what they are capable of doing. They struggle expressing themselves. Understanding themselves and others. And doing anything about that, seems taboo, forbidden, or just plain out of their reach.
But it's not.
I may have stumbled onto writing erotica by chance, but that opened an entire world to me, from sex toys to sex shows to sexual confidence, and a world I am still learning about, and sharing, every single day.
It is incredible helping other people find themselves, learn, and grow. I mean, that's why I am doing all this motivational speaking and charity work too, because I want to help others, inspire, give back, teach, and love.
Erotica is the same damn thing.
I want to help people find that spark, in themselves, in their life, in their relationship. I want people to feel good, happy, loved, satisfied, with everything. Writing erotica, doing videos about sex toys and faking orgasms, getting that spark back, exploring, encouraging others to open up to themselves and their partners... that's why erotica.
The last few weeks I have been happier than ever with where my business, my books and my Lady Mack Brand have taken me, and there is no stopping me now. My soul has found its calling.
And now, I want to hear from you. If you follow me on social media, you're going to see a whole lot of Erotica chats, and if you have a theme, topic or idea for me, let me know! Then interact with me on Facebook as I chat LIVE! I appreciate you guys being a part of my journey, because I wouldn't be doing all of this without ya'll!!
So I just wanted to say thanks again for reading, it means the world to me that you guys give me 5 minutes of your time to do so, and don't forget to subscribe to my email list so you'll catch the email going out later!!
Have a wonderful day everyone!! Chase those goals, stay focused, and open up a little, it's time to have some fun! ;)
Lady Mack, Author Carissa McIntyre xoxo